We Will Always Become Like the People We Associate With

John Maxwell, the New York times best selling author on leadership.

Have you ever noticed that when two people spend a lot of time together, they start sounding alike? You can close your eyes when they talk and not be able to tell them apart.

Association can work for you or against you.  If you are trying to quit a bad habit you must stay away from those that still indulge in the habit that you are distancing yourself from.  If you are attempting something great in your life, you must surround yourself with others that have gone before you.  You will never become more than what you are unless you associate with people that have done more than what you have done.

Never Take Financial Advice From Someone Who is Not Financially Independent

You would never ask a plumber how to do brain surgery, so why would we ask someone with a JOB about how to become financially free?  Another good thing to remember is, if you talk about success with a successful person, they will always tell you, “You can do it!”  If you talk to someone about success, who is NOT successful, they will most likely tell you every reason why you CAN’T.

Regardless of your dreams and passions, always surround yourself with people that support you and distance yourself from those that do not!

My Golf Buddies

1. Always look at the big picture in any situation, especially when in a strange environment.  It’s easy to get caught up in the details of tickets, roadsigns, traffic patterns, maps, luggage, etc.  Remember to take time and look up, and be aware of your surroundings, from a larger perspective.  For example, when walking, driving, you can avoid trouble more easily and adjust course sooner if you are aware of a larger radius of activity.

2. When walking in areas with lots of other people, always stand tall, act confidently, and make bold eye contact with others.  Criminals will always prey on those who appear weak, confused, or unsure of themselves.

3.  Especially in big cities, take wide turns around corners, cars, or large objects, so there is more space between you and what you can’t see yet…

4. Ladies should always loop their arms through the strap and over their purse.  Men should always carry their wallet in their front pocket.  I do this even when I’m not traveling, out of habit now.

5. After hailing a cab be sure to get the estimated cost before accepting the ride.  And remember… many cab drivers will purposefully take the longer route, if you let them.

6. Speaking of cabs, always pay the driver before exiting the cab.  Paying on the sidewalk leaves you vulnerable to the bad guys!

7. When sitting in a restaurant or coffee shop, always face the door.  Once again, you always want to be aware of your surroundings.

8. Some excellent defense weapons when attacked are: car keys, a pen, a pocket knife, or basically anything you can grab around you like a rock, stick, a chair, glass bottle, etc.  You get the point.  Remember to do whatever it takes to survive.

9. Never get into a car when asked to, even if they are pointing a gun at you.  Run as fast as you can and let them shoot at you.  Your chances of being hit are slim, and even if you are, you have a good chance of living.  If you get into the car, your chances of living are very slim to none!

10. Always expect the best, but prepare for the worst.

Tip: Save your cash and find your free paper in the seats of the waiting area of the flight that just boarded.

2. You can almost always get a free cup of coffee at the airport

Tip: Hustle over to the Horizon Airlines ticketing area and get a cup of Starbucks for free.

3. Always buy your snacks before boarding… once on board you are held hostage to inferior, over-priced food.

Tip: For the best savings and selection, stop at a deli or market before going to the airport.

4. When traveling alone, always be the last to board.  You can then have your choice of the remaining seats.

Tip: Don’t let the final boarding call scare you.  They will not close the doors early until all passengers are on board.